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Reimagining Indian Marriages: A Shift from Extravagance to Empowerment

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 The institution of marriage in India is deeply rooted in tradition, culture, and societal expectations. It is a significant milestone in one's life, marking the union of two individuals and their families. However, over time, the Indian marriage system has evolved, bringing both joy and challenges, especially in the context of expenses, societal pressures, and changing dynamics. Urban vs. Rural Perspectives: In urban areas, weddings have become grand affairs, often characterized by lavish decorations, extravagant venues, and elaborate ceremonies. The emphasis is often on showcasing social status and fulfilling societal expectations rather than celebrating the union of two individuals. On the other hand, in rural areas, while weddings may not be as grand, they still carry a significant financial burden for families. The pressure to host a respectable wedding often leads to families spending beyond their means, sometimes even taking loans or selling assets. The Financial Burde...

Gender Expectations: Why Men Can't Cry?

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Have you ever wondered why some people say it's okay for powerful leaders to show their emotions, but ordinary men can't? Imagine seeing a video where a strong leader like Narendra Modi openly cries on stage. You might think, "Why can't regular guys do the same?" Well, let's talk about how society sees men and women. We have these ideas about how men should be tough, strong, and not show their feelings too much. On the other hand, women are expected to be gentle, caring, and emotional. But think about itβ€”aren't men allowed to have feelings too? It's like we've boxed them into this idea that they can't cry or show they're upset. We praise them for being tough but criticize them when they show any sign of vulnerability. But here's the thing: men go through a lot too. They have families to take care of, bills to pay, and worries just like anyone else. But they're often expected to keep it all inside and not talk about how they fe...