Gender Expectations: Why Men Can't Cry?

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Have you ever wondered why some people say it's okay for powerful leaders to show their emotions, but ordinary men can't? Imagine seeing a video where a strong leader like Narendra Modi openly cries on stage. You might think, "Why can't regular guys do the same?"

Well, let's talk about how society sees men and women. We have these ideas about how men should be tough, strong, and not show their feelings too much. On the other hand, women are expected to be gentle, caring, and emotional.

But think about it—aren't men allowed to have feelings too? It's like we've boxed them into this idea that they can't cry or show they're upset. We praise them for being tough but criticize them when they show any sign of vulnerability.

But here's the thing: men go through a lot too. They have families to take care of, bills to pay, and worries just like anyone else. But they're often expected to keep it all inside and not talk about how they feel. And if they do, they're called weak or not manly enough.


Conclusion - That's not fair, is it? Everyone should be able to express how they feel without being judged. We need to break free from these stereotypes and let people be themselves. It's time to open our minds and hearts to each other's emotions and struggles.


Monali Suthar,

monalisuthar1210@gmail.com

www.monalisuthar.com

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